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• How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

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• How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

• How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

• How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

• How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

• How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

• How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

• All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options, enhancing the game's immersive experience. Whether you're looking for a deep, long-term relationship or a thrilling one-night stand, the game caters to every player's romantic inclinations. This comprehensive guide will walk you through each romance option, ensuring you don't miss out on any potential love interests.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive, allowing players to pursue any character regardless of their own character's sex. The game offers both short-term and long-term romance options, each tailored to the unique personalities and storylines of the characters involved. Some characters are open to brief encounters, while others require a more prolonged courtship. However, be aware that certain choices can lock you out of multiple romance paths, especially if you engage with multiple partners. Most companion NPCs are romanceable, and each relationship will alter your gameplay experience significantly, meaning you can't explore all romances in one playthrough. We'll delve into the specifics of each romance in the sections below.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

• Shadowheart
• Gale
• Astarion
• Karlach
• Wyll
• Lae'zel
• Halsin
• Minthara

For those interested in shorter flings, the following non-companion characters are available:

• Mizora
• Guardian/Emperor
• Drow Twins
• Haarlep
• Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart stands out as a prominent romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, often being the first companion you encounter post-crash. Her interest becomes evident early on if you manage to increase her approval rating. Romancing Shadowheart adds depth to her already integral role in the game's narrative.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

• Keep Shadowheart in your party to easily boost her approval. She values kindness, non-violence, and privacy. Support her against Lae'zel for a significant early boost.
• Once your approval is high enough in Act I, look for the "missed a chance to connect" dialogue. Alternatively, wait for the camp party after rescuing Halsin. If you've shown interest, an exclamation mark will appear over her head. Accept her offer to share a bottle and choose to spend the evening with her. During your walk, select dialogue options that show interest, leading to a kiss.
• In Act II, you can continue your romance by siding with either Selune or Shar. Support her new look if you choose Selune, or wait for a nighttime event if you choose Shar.
• In Act III, complete her quest regardless of her deity choice. A final nighttime event will lead to a special scene if you choose the right dialogue options.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

• Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though this isn't always the case. For a more secure romance in Honor Mode, focus solely on her. Save before exploring other romantic options.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is open to a relationship with your character. His romance not only offers personal fulfillment but also ties into the game's overarching plot.

How to Romance Gale:

• Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
• Fulfill his requests to consume magical items, occurring up to three times in Act I.
• Join Gale for a magic lesson in Act I, choosing dialogue that leads to romance. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
• Before transitioning to Act II, support Gale during the Elminster cutscene. Show concern for his well-being.
• In Act III, ensure Gale survives and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Speak to Gale before taking a long rest, selecting "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" for a romantic scene.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

• Gale is not open to an 'open relationship' and will be unhappy if you pursue other romances.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. His openness to various romantic scenarios makes him a versatile partner.

How to Romance Astarion:

• Boost his approval by adding him to your party early and choosing self-serving options. He appreciates sarcasm and generally disapproves of helping others.
• Allow Astarion to drink your blood for a significant approval boost.
• At the camp party, ensure you speak with Astarion and choose dialogue that leads to the first major romance scene. Let him bite you during this encounter.
• After the first scene, show interest in his scars and ask about their Infernal origins.
• In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about the scars. When Astarion visits at night, choose dialogue that expresses your affection.
• In Act III, complete his quest. Support him whether he completes the ritual or not to unlock the final romantic scenes. Choosing to let him complete the ritual can lead to you becoming a vampire.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

• Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner, not minding if you have other romantic encounters.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is challenging yet rewarding, offering a deep emotional connection and a unique storyline.

How to Romance Karlach:

• Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early. She values kindness, understanding, and violence in the service of helping others.
• Collect Infernal Iron quickly to allow Dammon, the blacksmith at the Emerald Grove, to help cool her Infernal Engine. After his work, express disappointment about not being able to touch her, and confirm you want to.
• At the camp party, express your feelings to her, leading to a later encounter where you suggest cooling her off with water to share a kiss.
• In Act II, continue helping Dammon at the Last Light Inn with more Infernal Iron.
• In Act III, take Karlach on a date to deepen your relationship.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

• Karlach is highly sensitive to infidelity. Apologize sincerely if she gets angry, and she might forgive you.
• Once her heart is fixed, you can enter a long-term relationship with unique dialogue.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his complex storyline, offering a deeper connection to his character.

How to Romance Wyll:

• Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Show empathy towards his struggles with Mizora and his father.
• Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove. If your approval is high, Wyll will be available for a night together during the party.
• In Act II, after a Long Rest, find Wyll dancing. Choose romantic dialogue options during this encounter.
• In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's romance can be short-term or long-term, depending on your actions and choices.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

• Increase her approval through decisive action and combat. She values warriors who act quickly and use intimidation.
• Once her approval is high enough, mention her different looks towards you in camp, which can lead to a one-night stand.
• In Act II, she'll visit at night and challenge you to a duel. Win or lose, you'll win her heart.
• In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on her allegiance to Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a public relationship during the ending sequence.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

• Lae'zel will end the relationship if you cheat on her after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance appeals to many players, thanks to his unique character and storyline.

How to Romance Halsin:

• Ensure you complete all of Halsin's quests in Act II to avoid being locked out of romance options. Lift the Shadow Curse before concluding the act.
• Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion later.
• Once he joins your party in Act II after locating Thaniel, keep him in your party. He values kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness.
• Exhaust all of his dialogue options daily, especially those about former lovers.
• When his approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night. Confirm your relationship status with him, as some companions (like Shadowheart and Astarion) will be okay with it, while others (like Karlach and Gale) will not.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique, often aligning with an evil playthrough, offering a different perspective on the game's narrative.

How to Romance Minthara:

• Avoid attacking the Goblin Camp and meet Minthara without starting combat. Side with her, betraying your party and the Emerald Grove.
• After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, embrace the change, and open your mind. She'll visit your camp afterward.
• At the goblin party, tell Minthara you are hers. If you pass the persuasion check, she'll join you in bed. Failure results in her attacking you.

Since the official release, some players report that you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp and rescue her in Act II at Moonrise Towers, leading to her joining your party. We'll update this guide once we verify this method.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

• Choosing the evil route significantly alters the game's experience, causing tension with other party members.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### How to Romance Mizora:

• Ensure Wyll is in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
• Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
• In Act III, find Mizora at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation and discuss Duke Ravengard. She'll visit your camp later.
• When she appears with an exclamation mark, ask about "beyond these planes" and choose "Sounds delicious, what are you suggesting?" followed by "Smile." She'll come to you at night for a one-off romance.

How to Romance the Guardian:

• Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Act II and III.
• Evolve into Half-Ilithid to boost approval (optional but helpful).
• Discover the Emperor's past lover in their old hideout.
• When the Emperor visits after discovering their past, choose to hold their hand.
• During their next visit, respond positively to their advances to trigger the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

• Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing during Act III.
• Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar. Either complete her quest or pay directly to access the twins.
• Follow her instructions to the chambers for the romantic scene. Avoid involving Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

• Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to the Boudoir.
• Encounter Haarlep, an Incubus serving Raphael. Accept their romantic offer, but be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

• Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing.
• Find the locked door marked by a green lantern at the top of the stairs. Pick the lock or get the key from Mamzell.
• Inside, defeat the Mindflayer that was once Jara, then speak to Naoise. Follow her cues to a brief romantic encounter, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.